Here Comes a Male chauvenist to put my views and get scoldings from the whole female community :)
To start with ,i read a blog of my friend saying Women were stamped upon by men and he was asking apology to all women but am here against him.. Why to apologize.. !! I never did anything wrong to any females nor my dad or my grandfather.. We had set of rules and we followed it and we were all happy as a family.. thts y every human lives life for.
Girls were not given respect: Common girls , u know pretty well that who were respected in society a lot. Women were Godly and men were just protectors.When Men went Wrong ,they say tht guy made mistake and thts it ..but why ppl were angry when a women made mistake!! Cos they believed Women cannot make mistakes.. They are noble and godly.. ppl could not withstand When women made mistakes cos they believed a lot on them...Men had hopes on Women. All the ages along, Men were protecting Women providing jus security. Even in Ants, Queen chooses the Worker bee.Male penguin tries to please female penguin for Sex. Importance of Sex awareness in women: I can definitely say that girls are more educated on Sex than any man(if he had not had any women).Then how are teenage pregnancies and abortions becoming so normal in society. I heard opinion from many women that this society dint respect the normal sexual feelings of a woman. Actually the truth is its not about feelings.. its all about importance ppl gave to Sex from time -to-time. these days when boys date and girls tell "why should boys hav all the fun".. and ppl who read this blog would sure be aware of what is happening in ur neighbourhood. I can quote a lot of examples wherein the freedom of girls have been misused. One of my friend's mom comment on her recent break up was" Dont worry dear, u will get a new boy friend" . I definitely dont feel pleasant to hear it. School guys kiss on the day they propose if girl accepts and if working parents of the boy/girl goes to office, they have this house at their disposal. Where things not proper jus twenty years back?. When i studied school ,one 7th standard girl got pregnant.. I dint know wat happened.. it was a practical joke to me tht time. i now know its seriousness.. Asking not to love/have a pre marital Sex is not a big thrust on girls or violent move against their liberation..its just a measure to lead a safe and happy life. If girls dont get into any relations other than wives ..wat can men do.?. they gotta find tree holes onli. Of Course,men need to be taught moral values just like women.And Men nowadays try more than before cos of this free will for Sex in Women these days. Few Years back ,there was scare that Girls will defintely scold but now they hav a belief tha if we try ten,one will definitely work out.Where did Men get this confidence ?I wanted to quote a survey result here.. A survey had been conducted on what makes a man attracted to Women for Sex.. !! Most Men told.. its her structure ,boo** and looks and everythin u can imagine in an ideal girl. Same survey was conducted amonng Women.Most Women said its Attitude, character and girls wanted to have Sex with whom they believe will come long way in thier life. The basic urge for Sex differs from Men and Women as well nature wanted a rapid increase in poupulation by transfering sperms into females..and hence a animal instinct embedded in Men to carry on the same. Women were always the chooosers since ages.Thats y culture was created like monogamy even before 2,000 years so that women or men dont fight the same opposite individual. In Eastern culture, is not tht Women were suppressed of thier feelings.. Feeeling for Sex is just an animal feeling and its not a basic necessity. I can accept tha u cannot avoid it so atleast u can abide rules of culture and have the human secies goin happily. Even the word "Men" is there in "Women".. i believe Women are Great only when they abide rules of culture. The little culture shaken countries of Europe and America, i mostly see individuals.. Men live with women and not families. If the abroad countries dont care for their citizens after 60, then the real values of families will be exposed. Learn technology from West.. Learn Honesty from West.. instead all i see is a rough patch match of wstern in eastern making things worse. Jus like super star movie dialouge " Man who dont respect Women is not a Man at all and Woman who does not repsect Man is not woman at all " :)"
Education for Woman:Education is must to Woman.. How else can they raise proper children.. !! Girls do have individual aspirations..Let them fulfill it without disturbing family morals. I have team lead who wakes at four and takes care of her child and runs to office and then gets back home and cooks food and the plays with child and makes him study and then sleeps at 11Pm.. How many Woman these days are like That..!! She dreamt to become a manager.. she became manager and had quit when she felt family more important .Her husband wanted to go abroad, but he wanted to watch his child play with him and help his wife.. and he sacrificed his onsite for the same. Sacrifice is the reason for happy families..but always the Wome sacrfice would be talked bout and u know the same "Pathu maaasam unna vayithila sumanten" dialogues. Even thts nature selection.. Ladies .. plzzz study but dont let ur studies spoil ur family life.. cos i am not sure whether losing family life had gained them a lot or not but am sure they lost a lot.
to be Cont....
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HI, this is quite interesting. Everyone of ur age, will write about love,and frdship, but you really think about society. As a girl, I really appreciate you.
Thanks Usha.. Wow.. i was scared tht any girl would scold me for this blog.. First comment from a girl.. i managed to escape :P
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