Opposite charges Attract

Am not here to talk physics here as the topic may seem to be. Its about the most happening war of years..Men vs Women.

slowly am seeeing the Men tending to get the female qualities like soft and tenderness) and female dominating characters. Though the evolution theory says that Females lead the groups when humans where hunters, females had the nurturing and caring nature al the time. And male was strong due to his rage and hunting spree to get food for his family. Females should have been made to stay at safe places during pregnancies whie men got food for them.

In recent yester years, we find that girls were made to stay all the time in home and no social life. might be ,thats the longivity of the male domination in gathering food for his family.

This blog i wanted to write cos the sensitivity of opposite poles or charges seem to diminsh and since the charge decreases the bond is not that firm as it was supposed to be. the cool or sluggishness in both genders seem to grow and finally they are loose but held together for some reason that either personal or for jus kids. The happiness of companionship is missing is the only thing am worried bout. But many justify saying that we also are avoiding the pain of leaving. But love is the only feeling where even u know that it will pain having it but still you prefer pain. Crazy though but thats wat humans are. Thoughts of a lover will haunt if they think bout them but still ppl tink bout them for little more time and in the pain they used to find one sad happiness and a blunt smile from heart with closed lips.

So what has the love transfered to these days. Guy walks and asks for the gifts he had given and girl gives back and similiarly girl gives back and finally move on. So finally wat do they live for? These people jus tell tht I should trust i should trust within them i guess cos how many times will you trust someoen after breakups. i dont know. Some say marriage keeps the bond. They must be kidding. If they dont trust a six ft tall living creature, what respect will they have for a small ring. dont know.

Love as if u cannot love hereafter.. Work as if you are best.. Expect as if you dont deserve anything..