wat do women do after love failure?

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am sure everyone is smiling or looking angrily at this post. coz we have a saying here that goes like Shahjahan built Taj mahal for his love but no mumtaz builteven a hut for her lover. So i got curious whether love really hurts Women as much it does men. actually am expecting lotsa comments from women side coz i really dont know.

One of my friend (a girl) was in tears for a month after her love break up that i felt very sad for her. But in next few months, she called me up to say "am in love" .I felt her attitude sluttish though i dint tell anythin bout tht to her. I dont know whether am rite or wrong but no relation is worth if its with many. You neither get the closeness or pain of that relationship. If you have hundred friends, you dont mind losing one that much and you dont feel the happiness of his support or companionship. that applies to any relationship. thank god ,in most cases ,we have one mom and one dad and problem arises when there are multiple.

so.. lets get back to our topic.What does Women do after a break up. I have seen guys after love break up. One guy jumped from well killing himself and another found a new girl friend and another became philosopher and another a drug addict and another a moron and finally one became a jigolo(one who was ladkiyon ka pujari :) )
But wherever i see, Women's after love failure aim is to cry for sometime ,then say love is bad for sometime and some get a new guy and finally everyone gets married.The best comedy part is they invite their lover to marriage. Very funny. What is she trying to do? trying to show off her happy life she is gonna have or just make the guy feel that she is normal and he should also be normal.

i have heard of few girls committing suicides too. but mostly they were pregnant or had an afffair and got caught or someone who really loved and got betrayed but its very few.
Even in movies, the story of love failure of women is not shown much. When a guy is cheating a girl, there is a female involved. What happens in real life to tht female. I spoke to a girl who had physical relationship with her lover and she broke the relationship with tht guy with some or other relation .I wanted to know whats her future plans. She told .. "Wanna get married to one nice guy" . I asked will you tell your guy about ur affair? . She asked" are you stupid? why would i tell him. I asked whether she would tell tht her hubby was the first guy in her life. She said "Yes. Not only me but all girls do that only. coz guys start doubting in future if we tell truth" .I dont know whether she is doing rite or wrong.but to me its wrong.

Moreover., i am confused like how they can be comfortable with the next guy. Is it my closed environment that makes me think like this? I cannot look into eyes and talk if am ditching someone/lying and how could she do it with such an ease. Women get married and then comes kids and thier life ends taking care of kids and grandchildren .So when do they live their life? Wont their cheating hurt them life long. Though memories fade with time it cant be uprooted completely. One more girl loved a guy for four years and they broke up and both are in the verge of getting into next relation.

are Women more emotionally stable? If they are so stable, why would they fall in love for someone. If they are so unstable, the breakup should pain like hell but how they get ready for next relationship so fast. Till date, i have never seen a girl who dint marry cos of her lvoe failure. If you check out matrimonial section for bride/groom , you can find that elder women who are willing to marry will mostly be divorcess or widows . But i have seen so many Men marrying at 40 or 50 (a late sunshine :) ).

anyways Women i am jus telling bout the world i see..please let me know of the real world of Women..