What is love?

I am not trying to find out love for humanity or motherly love as love takes its different forms I want to know about love between opposite sex betweeen the age of 14 and 30 .

In fourteen, these days ,girls are itnerested in brilliancy or at an athlete or one of his close friend who wants to spend time with. Mostly they are impressed with gifts and soft words. After that comes possessiveness love, comapanionship love, love for body ,love for comfort and many.. So wats expectation of a girl in love. If i prepare a list of needs, it seems biggggg one. But if i ask them,they will tell me two words, he should be understanding, Friendly and good human being. I dont give importance to looks. :) etc. But when you see them getting interested towards a guy, he will not meet any of this characteristics. initially masculinism attracts but with time they call it domination. Similiarly, In case of guys, they call a girl caring and finally it becomes over protective and irritating.

am confused to core. Love has perceptions from each other's views. There are people who give life for it and ruin lives and some dont give a damn about it. So ,Who is rite in this? Does practicality work everywhere? If everyone tries to be practical with their life,then there will be individual human species and no society and culture and you are back as uncivilized and again you start creating culture from ruins making analysis. Why to spoil and rework to put it proper?

So getting back to topic.. how much importance should be given to this so called relationship called love? just fall blind or always watch carefully with insecure feelings. Nobody wants to take life seriously but things happen that they get grave serious. Guy initially tries to be showing that he is confident and cool but with time, he shows his originality with time which would be a kid in him or a serious character. Girls mostly are sacrificial in this and try to help each other and get the family going while some break relationships.

If living for today is all about ,why do we make savings? In Western countries where the economy is spending economy ,people rejoice the comforts of having fun alone while eastern countries having savings economy struggle all the life. Love is a add-on package for them in real life. while it is life for eastern culture. Since some people make a wrong patch of this, it ruins the life of many. Trying to justify comparing to worst thing is not a good practise. just try for betterment.

While My russian friends in India tell that "Wish i were born in india..i love it so much for thousand reasons" ,why do you want yourself to do something and screw up ur culture which you have in your heart killing with thoughts of brain like live in relations. If someone wants to survive, go for a live in relation .If you want to live, Love and get married.