Thursday, July 31, 2008

What should i do with my life?

Everyone passes the confused stage of life while moving through the different stages of life as milton had mentioned. From child to Adoloscense and from there to Man .Every stage from one to another, you move on with just paying innocense as its price.

From Child, ppl move on from the care of parents to the companionship of friends and from there to the longing of a lover, people move on to become the daring lover or very self satisfied person. If he gets into marriage with his girl, he moves on to the self satisfied person or what next Question. But if he fails to get the hand of a girl, he looks on for something daring to do with his life or just give away as if everythin is lost and live a life of stone.

From childhood, parents teach you whats good and whats bad and make you believe that there is onli one way of living your life and its the way they presume to be the only way of existence and deviating from it, you will go to hell or suffer.

A dad's dream was that his son was to complete a MBA which the father could not do during his days due to some or other reason.The Son however does not want to do masters and he is interested in something else. Should the son study for his dad's sake spoiling his day's of life for his dad or do something he wishes to. this son will later ask his son to study something which he wantedto study and cycle continues. Some ppl earn money so much that they save a lot for their children and grandchildren so they become lazy. Is the father's hard go for the luxury of his son who just made the great thing of just born to a rich father.

Dont know who should live for whom?whether father should live for his kids or Kids live the life accomplishing dreams of father till they are married and accomplishing dreams of other person after that. Running this Marathon of life is so tiring but stilll ppl live. jus to make others smile or to pull a selfish smile for themselves. "Bubble seeking reputation" never comes handy nor the money cos you cant spend hard currency in hell. just live. Is spirituality the right way of life ? so whats rite and whats not?

Everyone with a sad past and belief of good things will happen in future live. Who knows what life has got for them? Smiling at Calender beauties and dreaming of future,teeenage dissolves in the life. Running as a athelete hero to save the dignity of the country, Manhood becomes a mixture of happiness and sorrow. Happiness is when you think you are the winner of the race but sorrow to find that you were not the only person in the race and there is a lot probability that you might lose it to some many equal competitors.sometimes ,u feel you have been overtaken but still you run wishing some miracle to happen. Funny though nothing of that sort happens in real life. (I have not seen any)

I Still run to find why everyone lives? Basic survival instinct does help people live against all odds of live if they are single but the bondage with the people around gives the scare of death and life.U either cant live easily or die easily.
Just run .. Lift someone or carry someone on the run. who knows bout life ? miracle can happen to you which never happened to me :)

Queued to Death

Whenever i feel why do i live ! i dint find any answer. is it for money? no.. I will never be happy with just money. Is it for fame! Even gandhi or nethaji or napolean will jus be in paintings after few years. The history will become novels with time. All i observed in this human life is , everyone is Queued to Death jus like in the airport to get tickets. :)

The end is very simple and the path of Queue is our real life. Standing in the Queue withstanding the leg pian, we find happiness in the companionship of other passengers in the Queue. Some are standing close to you in the Queue like your parents and friends but neither u can stop them from getting to the end of Queue for they can stop you. But on the way to the Queue, Scientists invent chair to sit though u r in the Queue.To make the standing time comfortable. Man is just trying to make the stand in Queue simpler by inventing comforts but never the destiny.

am in the Queue.. So who else is standing in front of me!!

Tuesday, July 22, 2008

Giving gives Bliss

Many times i find good willing people always willing to do something to others. But they never find the rite track of things.am planning for some process that could keep others informed and direct on how to do good and wat r the opportunities available for them.

What about advertising a permalink and people can visit that permalink and get their possible ways of helping others. Here is the proposal

I am planning to create a common team blog where i will be the administrator. Members of teams will be from different areas. These people will blog on the possible opportunites of doing good in their nearby locality. For example, Need of scribes or Orphanage home's requirement for clothes etc.. These posts will be available at permalinks and people will be made aware of it. So whever ppl wannna do something to ppl or find leisure ,they will jus launch link and check for recent posts of availability of opportunity to do some good. Ppl can follow it up and do the necessary things.

Permalink will be location based. like http://www.helpothers.$location$.bogspot.com

so that ppl can launch their lcoation link and find the posts specific to their area of interest.

Dont change for world.. Change the world

Monday, July 21, 2008

Opposite charges Attract

Am not here to talk physics here as the topic may seem to be. Its about the most happening war of years..Men vs Women.

slowly am seeeing the Men tending to get the female qualities like soft and tenderness) and female dominating characters. Though the evolution theory says that Females lead the groups when humans where hunters, females had the nurturing and caring nature al the time. And male was strong due to his rage and hunting spree to get food for his family. Females should have been made to stay at safe places during pregnancies whie men got food for them.

In recent yester years, we find that girls were made to stay all the time in home and no social life. might be ,thats the longivity of the male domination in gathering food for his family.

This blog i wanted to write cos the sensitivity of opposite poles or charges seem to diminsh and since the charge decreases the bond is not that firm as it was supposed to be. the cool or sluggishness in both genders seem to grow and finally they are loose but held together for some reason that either personal or for jus kids. The happiness of companionship is missing is the only thing am worried bout. But many justify saying that we also are avoiding the pain of leaving. But love is the only feeling where even u know that it will pain having it but still you prefer pain. Crazy though but thats wat humans are. Thoughts of a lover will haunt if they think bout them but still ppl tink bout them for little more time and in the pain they used to find one sad happiness and a blunt smile from heart with closed lips.

So what has the love transfered to these days. Guy walks and asks for the gifts he had given and girl gives back and similiarly girl gives back and finally move on. So finally wat do they live for? These people jus tell tht I should trust i should trust within them i guess cos how many times will you trust someoen after breakups. i dont know. Some say marriage keeps the bond. They must be kidding. If they dont trust a six ft tall living creature, what respect will they have for a small ring. dont know.

Love as if u cannot love hereafter.. Work as if you are best.. Expect as if you dont deserve anything..

Sunday, July 20, 2008

One Mistake

The happiness the Virtual world you can think off creates hurts worser than the real world you live in .. One mistake is good enough to ruin whole life of anyone and show you all the wildest part of your race.
i recently heard of one such mistake which turned out a life of a rural girl upside down. This female loved a guy at the age of 16 and eloped with her lover at 17 to bangalore where she was left helpless after taking her jewels from her.She was made to have bodily relationship with other guys by her own lover(must be a son of a Bit%%) himself which later turned out to be her profession. She got the most advanced mobiles and latest gadgets from her clients and she still wanted to escape from her world and start of her new life and she was trying to make friends from the world outside hers since she could not get back to her..At some point of time, she felt this was wrong(a very late self realization).Her outside world friends through internet grew to mobile chat friends. One such mobile chat friend, invited her to his city and she travelled there to get a job through him .As soon as the girl arrived to the city, she was shocked to see six men instead of one. They introduced themselves as Friends of her Friend and they booked a room and all the six promised that they were her friend and they will definitely get a job for her and had physical relation with her inspite of her tears pleading for forgiveness from God for contiuing her bad life again with these guys in the only hope that things will get better.. Those guys left her in some bus stop with just a ticket to her native and laughed at her and got back.. These guys called it fun that how they cheated a girl.. Dont know how tht girl is now or where she is.. and this is not a cooked up story.
If she had not loved at such an early age ,If she had not eloped, If She had not lived the life of a slut her life would have been a pleasant family of two children by now. Thought these mistakes she had commited are sequential, they had their origin with ONE MISTAKE of giving away herself at an early age. She knew it was wrong to love or run with lover at 17 and still she managed to do it and that was the source of all her mistakes..

If she had lived a life of moral values she need not have to pray to god with tears. Instead she would have been thankful to God for such a good a life she had deserved.. Its not about just girls, boys think that sleeping with many is the show of masculineness among other guys. But truth is they are just becoming a part of new caste of jigolos. What else will you call a guy who sleeps with many!!

Follow Moral values, i bet you, you can have long term benefits of a happy life.. What more gift do you need than feeling good about yourself daily when you close your eyes to sleep. Why has rehabilitation centres grown more in West where moral values are broken? You always moment pleasure by breaking morals but things get worse when you start hating yourself for being so bad. You can always justify others but never you.. you know wats rite and wats not!!

Everywhere you hav two choices -to do rite or to do wrong.. Dont make that wrong to be a rite by just compromises.. cos there is only one thing-Mistake and not small and large sizes.Dont do that one mistake that will make you bend your head in front of you..

Friday, July 18, 2008

Evolution and Human Race

What will a human body cell in your body think bout you ? might be is that the same you think bout god too... !!
Cell is jus primitive in its own. It has the same properties of the human. A Celll can move, reproduce, created at bone marrow which was once a diploid zygote and die . We can compare even the Apoptosis with the suicide in humans.. but Apoptosis in cell is similiar to suicide of mentally affected ppl committing suicide and DNA replication process stops which means the death of the extension of chromosomes unlike the sperm Cells who can extend endlessly.
With time the primitive organism could have undergone mutation and variation to develop a complex organism like human. jus imagine the extinction of any species to be the depletion of a group of cells from the whole Universe (which is compared to human body here) .
We can have the whole human body compared to the Universe we live.. When i thought bout this comparison, i found it crazy that i was the onli person to think like this.. but i found out the MIB director also had thought bout it like galaxy to be a small ball that could be hung around neck of a cat..
So, how does the brain gets complex with generations? Sperm cell has a unique ability to elongate its DNA chain endlessly. Every generation, a man lives, his characters such as anger, social nature, nurture and its impacts and his harmone metabolism is encoded in the DNA. So, with generation , the sperm cell elongates and gives a more information to the next generation. If this was not provided, then the future generation would not survive marking end of species due to social and environmental changes. This concept also explains the generation gap among one generation and other. Its just not the environment , that characterizes the offspring, but also the DNa information. I had read that even looking at DNa structure in the chain, we could find the dominance of the Stealing nature in a kid. If characters can be carried through DNA, why not the knowledge of generations? After all character is also a knowledge of an Ego..
This concept as well gives explanation to aeon theory of life of universe.
This thought of mine is not a statement saying ,this is the world. its the being of saying why this cant be true!!

Wednesday, July 16, 2008

Jewellery for Man

Fashion is a feeling ... The Dress a man/Woman attires reflects his attitude, free will and thought mentality. .. Even observing ppl around, you can find out the thought mentality of ppl from the dress they wear.. U can decide the material and how much involvement should be given to style and how simple it should be can be decided by the feeling the designer possesses for the design.
How bout Jewellery for men!! Tht fits on the man's firm body like a thick film to fit on his tough body.. The very jewels made of thin woodor thick leather tht forms tough on a guy's body..

Girls wear tough metals like Gold and Platinum contrast to their soft ,tenderness .. Men ,who are already tough can try out some blenders with their physique.. Its jus like the matching of light colored shirt with dark pant

a Wrist wrap thts half the length of the handchains not made of any metals.. Thts how i wanna differentiate from female ornamentsnot of gold. Men ornaments need to be flexible.. not of any metal... cos we are metals... We need something soft around..The feeling of the softness of a girl on the ornaments wore.. Whole world is on the path of making platinum jewels for man.. Y do we need a platinum ,wen we are tougher than those materials..

This is not to say how you should think .. this is jus to say that u can think like this also..

UnBiased Media in Democracy

The only way people get aware of everything happening around them is the media. Just like the Right to information Act, Every individual has the right to know wat politicians are doing and where are we heading to.. without any mission, citizens are just blindfolded and they just vote to the against the ruling party every election and history has been repeating..

Just like the judiciary, there must be an independent body for the media to let citizens of the country know the goals of the country and recent proposals and whats is happening in the country. News channels could be biased and the first hand information frm the government bodies should be provided in the channel.Advertisements should not be allowed. Yeah that channel will sound quite boring but it should promote the knowledge in youngsters and provide knowledge for the seekers . We ,citizens know pretty well that most of the channels are owned by one political party or another .Definitely u dont get a unbiased news from it.So Government should have information channel to literate ppl on everything about politics and goals and accomplishments. I would say ,true democracy is only when ppl get awareness bout social responsibility and exercise them properly. Government should not interfere in the private business information.it should provide only information on what Member of parliament is doing and regional information on wat the MLA has proposed including the inaguration to new ventures. This does not break Security of any economy but every citizen should be provided awareness of economy and governemt change in policies.Also change in laws should be given in the news so that ppl are aware of the same.

Art films by film institute guys or young aspirants should be showed up . Every individual who wishes to make the difference in the society should be motivated. I am seeing so many live shows wherein dance and jokes are made highlight just to keep viewers entertained. There are so many fields where youngsters are working hard to achieve. They should be motivated.. There are so many fields.. Photography, cinema, Drama even in Arts.. So Much knowledge to be harnessed.. but am seeing so much increase in the itnerest towards dance than anything .. What sin did the other fields do!! For entertainment, Media can broadcast bout culture ,Language beliefs and recent discovery in the different fields and make ppl aware of the outside world.
Exposure is the Key. I dont want youth's precious time going for waste on reinventing things and India being the part of developing economy always. The most Effective resource in the whole world is human resource.. wE hav it in abundance.. Literate them and we are the best..

LETS DO IT !!!!

Sacrifice-is it always female syndrome?

I have seen both Man and Woman who struggled in life. My Mom was born in lower middle class and did her household helping her mom since she was very young and then joined a job and then did household at in lawas house and parallely taking care of me too.. waking early, cookinglunch and breakfast before 7 and send my dad to office and then make me get ready to school and then start to office and then work as type writer assistant.. she would struggle to type after travelling in bus for an hour to office and still had to do it. and again travel back with the only hope of watching me play with her and then again cook dinner and clean vessels and get back to sleep.. and this was her life tilll now. On the counterpart, my dad had to go to job at 17 as a traineee.. I remember my dad coming at night 11 after working two shifts so that he can clear up loans or give his kids better life. i would wait to see him with my mom till 10.55 PM and pretend to sleep in front of my dad and would sleep for real .Dad Used to struggle to complete one loan and another will crop up. When most of the guys of his age where after proposing females, dad used to mind business and thinking of doing something to clear his father's loans.

Am not here putting my sad stories of family.. Its always said Women life is a sacrifice. Is that Syndrome only for Woman.. How about the guys' (ur Father,my father) sacrifice?Both Men and Women sacrifice for the well being of thier offsprings and also their family. Why is it always said girls sacrifice! Even i have seen guys who dont get married for second after losing their life. Guys mainly marry cos they cant raise kids properly without females. I agree 100% on this. u ask me to take care of kid . First time i would say " sweety, u shud not cry" .. next it would be " u want doll " , then " Wat you need, i can get u " ,then "please dont cry" and finally " if u cry,am gonna beat u" .. i dont know anythin more than this.. so how do you expect me to take care of kids.. !! All guys would take care of kid like this only.. Many marry for the same and many dont marry for the same that they fear tht the new mother wont take care of it.
I read a blog saying Girls feeling for sex was not considered while considering the second marriage. in the sense, why does society tell that Men need a female for his desire and why not the society accept that females also need Men for Sex. Everyone knows that Girls need man for Sex also, they just feel shy to tell that . They jus put it in the decent way saying she needs support ,security and all.. just imagine wat if everyone tells Does not the girl body need a Man? then the meaning of marriage itself will deteriorate.. and get back to animal senses.
i hav read that basic necessities for life are air,food and water but these days ppl started including Sex too..Sounds funny though..
frank truth about our society is we are little closed.. Thts y we dont put things obvious. Everyone knows wat happens after marriage, but ppl in our culture put everythin in the decent way in order to maintain the moral need rather than the materialistic or physical need. thts does not mean we are doin some injustice to Woman.
there was never a basic necessity for a woman to study in hindu society though woman had been setting examples all through ages. Its not cos to over ride their thoughts but it was classified as responsibilities. Woman took care of family issues while man made money aking care of scoiety. There are books to define how men and women should live family life in "Aganaanooru" and social life in "Puranaanoooru". Men had thier own responsibilities and women thier own. Sacrificing life for bravery was a deed for Men while the same for the sake of family was a deed for woman. There is so bliss if ppl read all these and follow.
Even in buses we have "Ladies Seat" and not Seat for Men. If ppl say Women are fighting liberation, consitution writtten by Men should never bear any privilege for Women rite.. but its not so. Men gave their seats to standing Women till they asked a tired guy to stand up saying this is " Ladies Seat" .

Can a boy lead a life without studying and doing nothing in life by just getting money from his father.. ? how many guys do it? Guys hav been working and are working till death.. Is it not a sacrifice.. In order to get tht job,they had to study rigourously.., to give a proper life to parents initially and then wife and children.. is it not a good sacrifice worth talking bout.. I guess men dont show love and affection as obvious as women cos they feel feminish doin tht..But Men too love their children and want to give the best they could to thier children.
Women, am not lowering ur sacrifices.. am jus showing up Sacrifices of Men which is hidden by them for their modesty :P..

Taste of Life

I dont know how many tasted the burmese food " Athoo" ..its heaven guys. The best part of strollling in streets on weekend evenings is eating all junk food (TASTY food).. starting from the burmese side Athoo and then the stuffed boiled eggs and then small samosas and chilly bajjis.. I feel food is the real taste of life..
I have taken food both in Five star hotels and these streets shops but i always feel this street food more appealing..Its not the affordability as any would guess.. but the extremity of taste that lingers in your tongue.. You want a feel of spice, taste the hot soup available with the burmese food as side dish.. Phew ..man even now my mouth salivates.. And no sweet is sweeter than hot jelabis except honey.. You wanna feel the taste of sour, check out the pani poori .. Kewlllll

i had checked out a small hotel owned by a guy from madurai at vadapalani, chennai.. you shud taste the Chicken side dish and idlis.

Shree mittai milk Sweets,Adyar ananda bhavan mixture ,Mom's mutton Chops, Grandma'S Rasam.. I LOVE THIS LIFE..

And jus imagine a day u wake up and go for a jog in a hill station and get back and have a steam bath and then a massage and then a hot spicy food with roasted chicken and pepper mutton fry.. and then sleep in a tree shade with sound of waves of beach singing you lullaby forgetting all status reports and lover miseries.. Thats would be an ideal Date for me.. I wanna date with myself.. jus do things without planning.. go wher my instincts guides at the moment.. sleep wherever i want,dress not to impress anyone ,eat without restrictions..

Even the thought of writing this rejuvenates me.. what if i got this ideal date.. !! Someone plzz tell my manager to give me leave for two weeks.. :P

Tuesday, July 15, 2008

Blog about blogs

So wats blogging bout ... Free flow of thoughts put it on some notes.. i could see friends who read my blog tellling the concept moves on from one main topic to another.. Common guys, am not writing summary of things.. jus a feel bout when i think bout the topic and my mind moves on and on ..various thoughts inflow.. the same thoughts may repeat though i wrote it few of my previous blogs.. but blogs reflect the mood ,passion,thoughts of that moment instead of the meaning and literary skills. I never had a chance to look into the first line i typed ..i jus keep scribbling here on watever comes into mind..

I have started blogging since i wanted to know how often my thought process fluctuates.. so that i can conclude wat the real truth am thinking about and the perception i carry in mind..

to be honest, i chose the topic of writing blog bout blogs and i dint know wat to type and here goes my fifth blog. .

Where Women Stamped by Men II

Virginity-is it jus for Men:
Did a rape victim lose her virginity..? i would say no. Definition for virginity had been through changes for past two thousand years. In 2000 yeard old thirukural ,We have definition for virginity as "Its the conscience of a man/woman that she dint give up physically or mentally to any Woman/Man" .So where did the Hymen came into picture? First men Used to wear the traditional "Metti" in the fingers of foot once he is married. Women dint even look the face of the guy who wore Metti. But With time, they realised whats wrong in jus looking..Its just nature's creation and then came physics ,chemistry biology between men and Women. So ,later virginity was refined as its the concept that No Man/Women is said to lost his virginity if he he/she dint fall in love. Even those days Men and Women met in privacy to explore each other.Then Comes Hymen into picture also with it broke the trust of Men on Women and Women on Men. Both Genders started thinking "Am the first guy/girl in his/her life" .Thats why hymen concept was spread among other ppl who were not in love that if Hymen is open for a Woman,then she is not a virgin and just twenty years, there were killings in Africa since the groom found his bride not to be virgin cos of the absence of Hymen.So .,Woman has something to mark her virginity..is it?

There are examples in ancient culture, that a Woman hates her husband just because his chest was seen by Women from Balcony when he comes after winning a war through the Streets. There was discipline and still there were illecit relationships. Nowadays we seem to loosen the rules and wat u see is that the definition of virginity has gone through another definition change.
Girls are boys say "I dont bother about whom she slept with before marriage, i just care about future" .How do you feel? So cute and romantic huh!!! I feel its stupid and very narrow definition for broadmindedness. This one statement shakes down the meaning of love and Friendship and started spoiling relationships. If a girl/boy tells that " Am sleeping with many guys and am giving to pleasure to many " , why do ppl call their attitude sluttish. Instead you can put garland and wish for their bright future of service mentality rite!! When Women had their first Sex with husband, they believed this is what Sex is and everywhere its the same.. But what willl be the thinking of any girl who slept with more than one.. "Who was better? Can it get any better?" You know what will happpen further. Am not able to understand why marriage is so important . Ppl give importance to one Wedding ring or hindu "Thali" than trust of a man or Woman. Dont you feel its kiddish to say that , i tie u one rope in neck or a finger in one ring and u shud not sleep with other man or do anything else that might hurt family values.. Cant ppl live with trust. ?
I call that trust as virginity. I dont know how others take it. One faliure, and next love and move on.. Wats this?? is it semester exam that you write with arrear exam for every six months?
I dont understand even how ppl sleep with second lover with love? Nowadays ppl kill that conscience and call themselves civilized .Sorry to say ,am not civilized if this is wat broadmindedness and civlized really means..
i support the old definition for virginity rather the new ones.. Cos i predict the future definitions for virginity could be
" Oh nice to hear!! tht girl dint sleep with more than ten guys.. She is such a virgin "
"Wow, u never slept with any guy for past ten years?? u r a Virgin"
"Great!! u slept with girls only before marriage.. u R Virign Man"

Though i cud see ppl who laugh at this.. i want others to think that how old rules had been keeping the previous generations happy.. Also, i want to quote an example.. Even knowing that their head will be cut if the Queen slept with the negro workers, Queen slept with them. So just think about the liberation of the definition for virginity could do!! I Owe this statement both to men and women.

Where Women Stamped by Men

Here Comes a Male chauvenist to put my views and get scoldings from the whole female community :)

To start with ,i read a blog of my friend saying Women were stamped upon by men and he was asking apology to all women but am here against him.. Why to apologize.. !! I never did anything wrong to any females nor my dad or my grandfather.. We had set of rules and we followed it and we were all happy as a family.. thts y every human lives life for.

Girls were not given respect: Common girls , u know pretty well that who were respected in society a lot. Women were Godly and men were just protectors.When Men went Wrong ,they say tht guy made mistake and thts it ..but why ppl were angry when a women made mistake!! Cos they believed Women cannot make mistakes.. They are noble and godly.. ppl could not withstand When women made mistakes cos they believed a lot on them...Men had hopes on Women. All the ages along, Men were protecting Women providing jus security. Even in Ants, Queen chooses the Worker bee.Male penguin tries to please female penguin for Sex. Importance of Sex awareness in women: I can definitely say that girls are more educated on Sex than any man(if he had not had any women).Then how are teenage pregnancies and abortions becoming so normal in society. I heard opinion from many women that this society dint respect the normal sexual feelings of a woman. Actually the truth is its not about feelings.. its all about importance ppl gave to Sex from time -to-time. these days when boys date and girls tell "why should boys hav all the fun".. and ppl who read this blog would sure be aware of what is happening in ur neighbourhood. I can quote a lot of examples wherein the freedom of girls have been misused. One of my friend's mom comment on her recent break up was" Dont worry dear, u will get a new boy friend" . I definitely dont feel pleasant to hear it. School guys kiss on the day they propose if girl accepts and if working parents of the boy/girl goes to office, they have this house at their disposal. Where things not proper jus twenty years back?. When i studied school ,one 7th standard girl got pregnant.. I dint know wat happened.. it was a practical joke to me tht time. i now know its seriousness.. Asking not to love/have a pre marital Sex is not a big thrust on girls or violent move against their liberation..its just a measure to lead a safe and happy life. If girls dont get into any relations other than wives ..wat can men do.?. they gotta find tree holes onli. Of Course,men need to be taught moral values just like women.And Men nowadays try more than before cos of this free will for Sex in Women these days. Few Years back ,there was scare that Girls will defintely scold but now they hav a belief tha if we try ten,one will definitely work out.Where did Men get this confidence ?I wanted to quote a survey result here.. A survey had been conducted on what makes a man attracted to Women for Sex.. !! Most Men told.. its her structure ,boo** and looks and everythin u can imagine in an ideal girl. Same survey was conducted amonng Women.Most Women said its Attitude, character and girls wanted to have Sex with whom they believe will come long way in thier life. The basic urge for Sex differs from Men and Women as well nature wanted a rapid increase in poupulation by transfering sperms into females..and hence a animal instinct embedded in Men to carry on the same. Women were always the chooosers since ages.Thats y culture was created like monogamy even before 2,000 years so that women or men dont fight the same opposite individual. In Eastern culture, is not tht Women were suppressed of thier feelings.. Feeeling for Sex is just an animal feeling and its not a basic necessity. I can accept tha u cannot avoid it so atleast u can abide rules of culture and have the human secies goin happily. Even the word "Men" is there in "Women".. i believe Women are Great only when they abide rules of culture. The little culture shaken countries of Europe and America, i mostly see individuals.. Men live with women and not families. If the abroad countries dont care for their citizens after 60, then the real values of families will be exposed. Learn technology from West.. Learn Honesty from West.. instead all i see is a rough patch match of wstern in eastern making things worse. Jus like super star movie dialouge " Man who dont respect Women is not a Man at all and Woman who does not repsect Man is not woman at all " :)"

Education for Woman:Education is must to Woman.. How else can they raise proper children.. !! Girls do have individual aspirations..Let them fulfill it without disturbing family morals. I have team lead who wakes at four and takes care of her child and runs to office and then gets back home and cooks food and the plays with child and makes him study and then sleeps at 11Pm.. How many Woman these days are like That..!! She dreamt to become a manager.. she became manager and had quit when she felt family more important .Her husband wanted to go abroad, but he wanted to watch his child play with him and help his wife.. and he sacrificed his onsite for the same. Sacrifice is the reason for happy families..but always the Wome sacrfice would be talked bout and u know the same "Pathu maaasam unna vayithila sumanten" dialogues. Even thts nature selection.. Ladies .. plzzz study but dont let ur studies spoil ur family life.. cos i am not sure whether losing family life had gained them a lot or not but am sure they lost a lot.

to be Cont....

Thursday, July 3, 2008

Sound Recognition OS

I was just travelling in the bus today evening and i decided i wanted to think something informative.. the very next i thought bout the presentation i had yesterday.. two people were making presentation and one had to sit and just press "Space Bar" for forwarding the slide show and the other was making presentation. What if the person who was making presentation say the word " Next " and slide moves on automatically.. and a clap to move back to previous slide.. yeah..i do understand the technical difficulties.. If u need to go back to slide one from twenty, u need to clap twenty times.. might sound stupid for the audience if i do that.. but anyways just imagine tht u pull back ur seat with hands folded at ur back and say any application name and it executes(notepad when u say 'notepad')
What i am is a fanatic who wants innovative ideas to be used up.. dont want my dreams to fade out like mid summer dream.. World has so many discoeries waiting to be harnessed and this is one .. already exisitng and all it needs is ppl to believe on that. All i offer is the idea of Sound Recognition Operating System..
I dont even know whether am reinventing this.. But sound Recognition Operating System will be the future.. Jus imagine u can cook and operate ur music station or ur computer from lower end to higher end in space.. U dont have to move limbs to make key strokes to notify computers.
Sound Recognition Operating System will have voice compilers to identify the voice and logins to interpret the login info and the commands possibly provided by User at the time of loading login Information.

So.. how can that be achieved.. By identifying the voice properties u can draw signatures for an Entity(User). The transceiver will check for voice signals with the expected signature for it to go functional. We can have Voice compilers that could generate sounds for different system commands as well learn to interpet new voices if we offer command based on rules. Though the technical obstacles are more, we can always believe on technology ..who believed that some day we could watch Tv or communicate across globe.

Wednesday, July 2, 2008

INNOVATE.....U R GOD.

why do we pray God!! i dint find answer ..i saw perceptions..not answers.. quantifiable,justifiable answers is wat i seek for.. but actually all i find in common among different religions is .. " No man can create such a complex and beautiful structure as Universe and organize life on the planets. " So, there is this brilliant guy who has created this whole Geometry box.. and we bow before his creativity thinking that if he can create this whole universe, he can do anything with me too.. So,everyone keeps praying "God ,give me this that and what not"

So, what if a man can create complex structures.. indomitable,innovative mind is the real power which everyone possess. Creativity or thinking innovatively is possible everywhere..
If a Man, can create something innovative and keeps on thinking innovative ,then he is Godly.. i dont mean that he is gonna grant boons.. but every single invention is a boon .. wat i see in the whole world is three sorta ppl.. one - the young college students and innovative ppl ,the young aspirants.. at this age ,the creativity is in its peak..but teens never notice.. you ask a youngsters how to propose a girl he likes.. he will tell you millions of ideas though ppl had been doing this for years together.. Second group of ppl are ppl who are self satisfied. If u ask them wat u want of life.. they will say..i want to be happy daily, a good wife and two cute children-one boy and one girl . Third is the whining type.. they are hard working and they dont know what they are doing..they keep going and goin and finally they wont know their life is done..

Innovative ppl are achievers and role models while the second sort or followers and third sort are just living beings. am able to see politicians and people saying ,india should become like America or any other country by 2010.. Why are we bench marking some country when we can be more than that.. Innovations is the key to achieve in our country ..Japan was able to mark its presence only through innovation.. If india needs to develop ,innovation is the key and only we can make it happen..
Many ppl lack courage to express thmeselves with their ideas.. am sure if they had told their ideas to some other person in a discussion or on a chat, today it would have made a vast difference.. some think that their ideas are stupid!! but common, its urs .. U r special ..ur ideas are special if it comes to you on your own.. Even i was the same species once.. In my third year, was thining of complex project.. finally i made a UI design for the application that was in my mind.. and explained to my friend of its uses and functionality.. i came to know that i was reinventing AutoCAD. My friends laughed that it was invented long back but i felt i did something great. Every single moment, u can think of something new and the courage to believe wat u innovate will work is the only thing tht carried ppl to thier career heights..